Tuesday, January 14, 2025

Beauty and Ugliness are Subjective

My dad always told me that beauty was in the eye of the beholder, which included colors and color schemes. It would be quite boring if everyone had the same taste in car colors, clothing, and hairstyles, to name a few.

I’ve heard that everyone has someone, even if they are not as attractive as the next man, woman, boy or girl.  I have seen beautiful women become very ugly when I got to know them, because they were ugly on the inside.  They were full of themselves in many distasteful ways.

That which is inside a person matters the most.  Likewise, I have seen not so attractive people become beautiful the more I got to know them.  Their beauty shined forth through actions, caring and compassion for others, because of the person inside of their outward features. 

I’m glad that God looks on the inside and sees my heart of how much I want to serve Him, rather than looking at my imperfections on the outside and casting me aside.  God thinks I’m beautiful, because He sees me through the blood of His Son, Jesus that He shed on a cross for my redemption and the redemption of humanity; to save us from sin.

How many times do we view people with a critical eye and attitude, while focusing on their imperfections rather than giving them a chance to show who they really are inside?    More times than not, we are too quick to judge.  The Bible says that we are not to judge another person lest we ourselves be judged.

(Matthew 7:1-2), “Judge not, that you be not judged.” (vs 2) “For with what judgment you judge, you will be judged; and with the measure you use, it will be measured back to you.”

First impressions that I call perceptions are not always as they seem.  I have heard that you never really know a person until you walk a mile in their shoes or live with them.  I don’t think we have to go to these extremes when we give people a chance to reveal who they really are.  We must Stop, Look, and Listen.

We can then see clearly if we should associate with them or not.  No doubt, first impressions of Jesus, by some, were negative.  I believe they were looking for a warrior, strong and aggressive, as their messiah, whereas Jesus was meek, mild mannered, and calm spirited.  People were looking on the outside and failed to see God on the inside.

The ‘beauty’ of Jesus’ attributes was and are love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control—the Fruit of the Spirit, (Galatians 5:22-23).

‘Ugliness’ is the works of the flesh, which are adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lewdness, idolatry, sorcery, hatred, contentions, jealousies, outbursts of wrath, selfish ambitions, dissensions, heresies, envy, murders, drunkenness, revelries, and the like.  The Bible says that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God, (Galatians 5:19-21).   

Jesus is the ‘Beauty of Salvation’ that sets people free from the ‘Ugliness of Sin’ when we ask God to forgive us of our sins.  He will cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

A man in the Bible came running up to Jesus and asked, “Good Teacher, what shall I do that I may inherit eternal life?”  Jesus answered and said to him, “Why do you call Me good?  No one is good but One, that is, God.”  (Mark 10:18)

I believe the man was looking on the outside and perceived Jesus as just a man, instead of recognizing Him as Deity—God in flesh. 

The Bible says that Christians have the right to try the spirits.  Believers need not take people at face value when they proclaim to be speaking on behalf of God, or bearing spiritual gifts, until they have proven themselves as God’s ambassadors. 

(1 John 4:1), “Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits, whether they are of God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world.”

I believe my spirit will bear witness to the truth of their legitimacy.  You may ask, “What is the general picture that this writing is saying to me?”  I’m glad you asked.  God’s Word is saying that we should be wise as serpents and harmless as doves when dealing with people around us. 

We are not to be hottie in spirit, but long-suffering and listen to conversations.  I’ve been told that a person learns more by listening than talking all the time.  It is sensible to know who we are associating with as to whether they are portraying ‘beauty’ on the outside yet are dead man’s bones on the inside.

Yes, God uses people to assist and point us in right directions when needed, but our spirit will bear witness to that person’s council if, in fact, they are representatives of God, if I remain on God’s frequency regarding communication.  The Bible says that we must worship God in spirit and in truth, not just lip service.  We need to hear His voice.

(John 4:24), “God is Spirit, and those who worship Him must worship in spirit and truth.”

Written by,

Papa Boyd

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